Hello lovely souls! 🌞🌙
If you’ve ever dreamed of leaving behind your 9-to-5 job and working more aligned with your own rhythm, you’re not alone.
That dream led me on a journey to becoming a freelancer, and while it wasn’t always easy, it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
I to share my personal freelancing story with you – how I started, the struggles I faced, and how I found success along the way. Hopefully, my journey will inspire you to take the leap if you hear the calling as well. So grab your favorite cup of tea, and enjoy my little story.
1. the spark: craving freedom and creativity
My story begins like so many others: after leaving university my jobs weren’t exactly terrible, but they weren’t inspiring either. The more successful I got the more exhausted I was – and every day felt like I was just trying to survive and make it through the meetings and tasks. I had a growing desire to create something that was mine. Something that I was truly passionate about. I realized that I needed more freedom in my work and, most importantly, the ability to choose projects aligned with my values and interests.
The thought of becoming a freelancer first crossed my mind during one of those days when I was dreaming about what life could be like if I had more control over my time and creative energy. I imagined being able to work from anywhere, pick clients that excited me, and say goodbye to the corporate world forever.
But at that time, it was just a dream – something I thought about but wasn’t sure how to make a reality.
2. the first steps: exploring freelancing as a possibility
Freelancing felt like an entirely different world, one that seemed full of uncertainty. I had no idea how to get started, where to find clients, or if I would even be able to make enough money to survive. But the pull was too strong to ignore, so I started exploring.
My first step was to research what it meant to be a freelancer. I learned that freelancing could take many forms: you could be a graphic designer, a writer, a social media manager, a web developer, and more. Almost any skill could be turned into freelance work. That realization was a turning point for me because it showed that I didn’t need to have a specific “freelancer job title” to get started. I could simply take the skills I already had and offer them on my own terms.
Once I figured that out, I started experimenting with a few ideas and really focused on my strengths and favorite things to do. To understand even in this process that I always loved my job but not the circumstances I was working in.
3. building the foundation: gaining knowledge and confidence
the transformation
At this point, I was still working my regular job, and I felt like I really have to make space to fully concentrate on building up my freelancer life. At this time I worked 60-80 hours a week and I felt so much pressure and judgement, that I just quit one Monday morning. I couldn’t take it any longer. “To have space we need to let go” always sounds like a cliché, but in this case it was so true.
Another way is to explore freelancing on the side, balance between the freelancing and the employment and when your freelancing foundation feels stabile you can start your full transition. It’s different for everyone.
how did my target group find me
One of the first things I did was create a simple portfolio showcasing my work. I took my regular CV and added more information about my portfolio, my experiences and also more about me as a person.
I also started building my online presence by setting up profiles on platforms like LinkedIn, where freelancers often find projects. I get in touch with headhunters, participated in Facebook groups, and informed my entire network.
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And I also found a new tax manager specialized on freelancing and I reconsidered my insurances with a specialist, so they matched to my new life and work. I wrote a business plan to get some financial support. I even got my own CI, translated in business cards, postcards and stationery.
So I put all my positive energy in one direction: becoming a freelancer. Being seen as a freelancer.
It wasn’t long before I got my first project for a huge automotive brand. I remember being so excited! It felt like the proof that freelancing was possible. That first project gave me the confidence boost I needed to keep going.
4. the struggles: doubt and uncertainty
As exciting as it was to land my first few gigs, the reality of freelancing quickly set in. The freelance life can be full of highs and lows. One moment you’re thrilled to have a new project; the next, you’re worried about where your next paycheck will come from.
Sometimes I would go weeks without knowing if I will have work after the current project will end, and I also had to adapt to new clients, new teams, new energies. This led to a lot of uncertainty and the need for lots of patience and balance.
On top of that, because I was working for myself, it was easy to fall into the trap of working all the time. I felt the pressure to say “yes” to every project and client because I didn’t want to lose out on any opportunities. I realized that I needed to set boundaries, both with clients and with myself, to avoid overworking and to stay motivated and inspired.
5. the breakthrough: finding my niche and my people
After the first 2 years of of freelancing, I learned one very important lesson: it’s not enough to just take any and every gig. I needed to find a niche – a specific area where my skills could shine and where I could establish myself as an expert.
I started to focus more on processes within teams, tools to make their worklife more happy and the guidance of change processes. I loved working with people who were passionate about their own projects, and I found that helping them bring their visions to life was incredibly fulfilling. By narrowing my focus, I was able to attract clients who valued my work and were willing to pay a fair rate for it. It also allowed me to position myself as a specialist, which helped me stand out in a crowded market.
At the same time, I realized the importance of community. Freelancing can feel isolating at times since you’re often working on your own without the daily interactions that come with a traditional job. But I found that connecting with other freelancers, whether through online groups, local meetups, or networking events, was a game-changer. I started sharing my experiences with other freelancers, asking for advice, and even collaborating on projects. This sense of community not only helped me grow professionally but also gave me the emotional support I needed to keep going.
6. sustaining the freelance life: lessons learned
After overcoming those initial struggles, I started to find my rhythm as a freelancer. Here are a few key lessons I’ve learned along the way that might help you if you’re thinking about taking the plunge:
- Consistency is key: It’s easy to get discouraged when things are slow, but staying consistent in marketing yourself, improving your skills, and building your portfolio will pay off in the long run. Freelancing is a marathon, not a sprint.
- Set boundaries: When you work for yourself, it’s tempting to say “yes” to everything, but it’s important to set boundaries with clients to avoid burnout. Know when to say “no,” and make sure you’re valuing your time and energy.
- Find your niche: Instead of trying to know everything, find the area where your passion and expertise align. It’ll help you stand out and attract clients who are excited to work with you.
- Value community: Freelancing doesn’t have to be a lonely journey. Find your tribe – whether that’s other freelancers, entrepreneurs, or creatives – and lean on them for support, collaboration, and inspiration.
7. the freedom and fulfillment of freelancing
Now that I’ve been freelancing for a few years, I can honestly say that the freedom and flexibility are everything I had hoped for. I get to choose the projects I work on, set my own schedule, and work from anywhere I want. But beyond that, freelancing has allowed me to grow as a person. I’ve learned how to manage my time, handle uncertainty, and build meaningful relationships with clients and collaborators.
Freelancing has given me the chance to live a more creative, intentional life, and that’s something I wouldn’t trade for anything.
final thoughts: your own freelance journey
If you’re thinking about becoming a freelancer, I hope my journey has shown you that it’s possible – even if it’s challenging. Freelancing requires patience, persistence, and a willingness to embrace uncertainty, but it also offers incredible rewards. Whether you’re dreaming of creative freedom or simply want more control over your work life, freelancing could be the path you’re looking for.
Remember, it’s okay to start small. You don’t have to have everything figured out right away. Take those first steps, build your confidence, and trust that you’ll find your way. I believe in you!
Wishing you all the freedom and joy in your journey, wherever it takes you. 🌞🌙
I hope this personal reflection on my freelancing experience gives you insight and encouragement to pursue your own journey!
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